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May 2013

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“If owning a gun and knowing how to use it worked, the military would be the safest place for a woman. It’s not.

If women covering up their bodies worked, Afghanistan would have a lower rate of sexual assault than Polynesia. It doesn’t.

If not drinking alcohol worked, children would not be raped. They are.

If your advice to a woman to avoid rape is to be the most modestly dressed, soberest and first to go home, you may as well add “so the rapist will choose someone else”.

If your response to hearing a woman has been raped is “she didn’t have to go to that bar/nightclub/party” you are saying that you want bars, nightclubs and parties to have no women in them. Unless you want the women to show up, but wear kaftans and drink orange juice. Good luck selling either of those options to your friends.

Or you could just be honest and say that you don’t want less rape, you want (even) less prosecution of rapists.”
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A Short Post on Rape Prevention (via brute-reason)

BOO + YAH!

May 02, 201350,763 notes

November 2012

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Nov 06, 20127 notes

October 2012

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Champagne Candy: So last night → champagnecandy.tumblr.com

champagnecandy:

I was dealing with some personal ish and decided to grab dinner with a friend and then meet some other folks to watch the debate/football. Was already stressed and emotional, but whatever, had some whiskey and some ice cream and was feeling OK by the time we were actually able to leave our spots…

read the whole post.

the way the world exists right now, the proper thing to do is say that most men of the world are JUST not like this.

that is simply bullshit.

this is the majority view/behavior/wtfever summed up.

and that shit needs to change. and by that i mean immediately. 

sarah is so right that this man will see no social consequences from this outburst, no one will make him a pariah for his misogyny.

why?

if it had been her, she would have been written off as a bitch by all those around.

this is horribly fucked up. and some say sexism no longer exists…..

Oct 23, 201228 notes

July 2012

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Jul 03, 20125,593 notes

April 2012

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Apr 08, 201290,525 notes
New York Times || Supreme Court Ruling Allows Strip-Searches for Any Arrest → nytimes.com

suzy-x:

Transvaginal ultrasounds to dissuade you from getting an abortion

Now, strip-searches to dissuade you from dissenting or risking arrest

Invasive policies that deploy sexual assault in order to keep you in line

Where does it end?

Apr 05, 2012194 notes
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Apr 05, 20121,197 notes

March 2012

5 posts

“The craziest part of this brainwashing is how a very basic situation has been twisted into something incredibly ugly. An unarmed child is shot and killed for doing nothing but walking home by a man with no authority who had been told to stand down by the police. This is cut and dry. You can look at this and go, “Oh, that’s a tragedy.” But because the kid was black, because everything is ultra-politicized, because racism is so ingrained in the DNA of the United States of America, this is somehow a controversy. I repeat: an unarmed child was shot dead by a grown man. This is one situation that everyone should be able to understand. It’s a nightmare scenario for every family ever. And yet… the news is telling us that the child may have possibly been a thug, a drug dealer, a hoodlum, a monster, as if any of that has anything to do with why he got shot. There are people out there actively digging up (incorrect) dirt on Trayvon Martin as if that matters at all. He’s a… I don’t even know, a point in a long-running argument, an abstraction about the evils of black youth.” —

http://4thletter.net/2012/03/thats-just-the-way-it-is/ (via comixace)

a really great article that you should read in full

Mar 28, 201226 notes
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Mar 25, 201226,720 notes
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I want to tread carefully here: I do not accuse Kristof of racism nor do I believe he is in any way racist. I have no doubt that he has a good heart. Listening to him on the radio, I began to think we could iron the whole thing out over a couple of beers. But that, precisely, is what worries me. That is what made me compare American sentimentality to a “wounded hippo.” His good heart does not always allow him to think constellationally. He does not connect the dots or see the patterns of power behind the isolated “disasters.” All he sees are hungry mouths, and he, in his own advocacy-by-journalism way, is putting food in those mouths as fast as he can. All he sees is need, and he sees no need to reason out the need for the need.

But I disagree with the approach taken by Invisible Children in particular, and by the White Savior Industrial Complex in general, because there is much more to doing good work than “making a difference.” There is the principle of first do no harm. There is the idea that those who are being helped ought to be consulted over the matters that concern them.

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The White Savior Industrial Complex - Teju Cole - International - The Atlantic

(bolding mine)

this. charity allows you to feel better and to ignore the root problems. to give handouts instead of talking to people.

it is particularly dangerous for someone like Kristof, who is at least theoretically a journalist. your job is to talk to people, to get the whole story, to get as deep into it as you can. particularly when you have the luxury of a fat New York Times paycheck and travel budget, you damn well owe it to the people you cover not just to skim the surface of their stories. your job is not to fix their problems, your job is to help them tell their stories. 

I used to wonder how one could do this kind of journalism and NOT want to save people, to help the individual right in front of you right now, even if it doesn’t solve the problem. because it is so tempting and so hard. covering labor issues makes it a little bit easier for me—the people in front of me don’t need what little money or “help” I can give, they need more people to hear their story. they need solidarity in a very practical way. there is no “saving” I can do. 

the people who want to “save” people always seem to want to do it overseas, too. they don’t want to save people in their own country, their own city. they only wanted to save people in New Orleans when the city was flooded—then we saw Anderson Cooper and Geraldo and the rest of them rolling up their sleeves and carrying babies. 

your job is not to save people. your job is to help them tell their stories. when you become the story, you are no longer doing your job. 



(via champagnecandy)

Mar 24, 201211 notes
urban_mermaid's watery ramblings: SXSW Music 2012 Wrap Up → urban-mermaid.tumblr.com

urban-mermaid:

Every year I go to SXSW Music, I keep a handwritten notebook alongside me to take notes of each show I see. This year I managed to see 39 bands, 2 movies and help a friend with a brand new baby during music. I try to rank shows in the top 10 order, but this year there were several that blew me…

i am so hating on you and your seeing the magnetic fields right now.

HATING!!!!!!

this gets a much deserved mumblegrumble&shit, but glad you had a good time

Mar 23, 20123 notes
#jealous #jealousy #extremely jealous #mass jealousy #envy #envyenvyenvy
Mar 17, 20125,212 notes
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January 2012

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December 2011

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November 2011

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decolonize your heart: wtfwhiteprivilege: For those who think blacks in America are imagining... → decolonizeyourheart.tumblr.com

wtfwhiteprivilege:

For those who think blacks in America are imagining racism or blowing things out of proportion:

feedmerevolution:

Fact: Black youths arrested for drug possession are 48 times more likely to wind up in prison than white youths arrested for the same crime under the…

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October 2011

13 posts

Occupy San Francisco: the teenager who was refused cancer treatment. → guardian.co.uk

jonathan-cunningham:

socialistscum:

Occupy San Francisco protester Miran Istina stands outside the US Bank building on Market Street, San Francisco. Photograph: Martin Lacey

As Miran Istina puts it, she has been living on borrowed time since she was 14. Diagnosed with cancer, she was given just months to live after her health insurer refused to provide her with life-saving surgery.

Now 18, Istina, from the city of Sisters in Oregon, has spent the past three weeks living in a tent at the Occupy San Francisco protest and says she will stay there indefinitely, despite her illness.

She was inspired to take part in the protest by the refusal of her insurance company to pay for treatment for her chronic myelogenous leukaemia.

She said: “They denied me on the terms of a pre-existing condition. Seeing as I had only had that insurance for a few months, and I was in early stage two which meant I had to have had it for at least a year, they determined it was a pre-existing condition and denied me healthcare.”

Treatment would require a bone marrow transplant and extensive radiation therapy and chemotherapy, at a cost of several hundreds of thousands of dollars. Coming from an ordinary middle-class background, her family has no way of paying for the surgery that would save her life.

Following her insurer’s refusal, she spent three years travelling the US looking for a healthcare provider who would give her a chance at life.

Istina said: “I went all over the place, looking for someone to give a damn, really, someone to care enough to treat me. Because we were middle class, we couldn’t afford to treat my disease. We’d be in debt for the rest of our family life.”

After repeated refusals to offer her treatment, she said: “I decided I was going to spend the rest of my life doing whatever my heart wants.”

The Occupy movement attracted Istina as she ties the corporate influence on American politics to the decision that has sentenced her to death.

She said: “The corporate influence on politics influences just about anything that happens, seeing as politicians write the plans that healthcare has to follow. It directly links the fact that insurers only pick and choose those who are actually worth it [financially]. I just happen to not be one of the ones they wanted to be around much longer.

“The decision was absolutely influenced by some corporation or some bank saying, ‘we can’t afford her. She’s not worth our money.’ In end terms, corporate greed is going to cost me my life.

“I used to be really upset about it. I’m not as much any more. I’m angry, for sure, but I think me being here might help it never happen again. That’s why I’m here. It’s that there are other people this is going to happen to if this movement doesn’t succeed and that’s not healthy. I’m done being the victim. However long I have left is dedicated heart and soul to this movement, no matter what it takes.”

She has immersed herself in the movement, becoming the chief media relations officer for Occupy SF and organising fundraising events around the city. On Thursday afternoon she led a CNN television crew on a walk through the camp, to show how they were living, explain their motives and refute claims that the living conditions are unsanitary.

She said of her new life: “My heart is finally satisfied.”

The Occupy San Francisco movement has seen up to 300 protesters take over the Justin Herman Plaza, at the Embarcadero in the downtown district since October 5.

The occupiers are given food by local restaurants and have received donations from supporters to provide supplies.

Health professionals from the San Francisco General Hospital are providing round-the-clock care for Istina, who needs strong pain killers and constant monitoring of her condition. Earlier in the month she suffered a kidney malfunction which required urgent hospital treatment.

Throughout the afternoon four police officers kept a watchful eye over the groups of tents and makeshift shelters but the atmosphere was relaxed. When the officers staged a walk-through some of the occupiers shared jokes with them. One said: “Please leave the automatic weapons outside the camp. This is a peaceful protest.”

Another said: “We’re not doing any harm. We’re just a bunch of peace-loving hippies.”

But a raid on the camp is possible at any time. San Francisco mayor Ed Lee has repeatedly insisted that the camp is illegal and all tents should be removed but so far little has been done to enforce the law.

He has threatened a raid and on Wednesday night occupiers expected police to move in, sparking a larger than normal demonstration. Two candidates for the upcoming mayoral election joined with the protesters but despite the presence nearby of riot police, the raid did not go ahead.

© 2011 Guardian News and Media Limited or its affiliated companies. All rights reserved.  

This should be a crime.

FUCKING DISGUSTING!

but remember, the us has the best health care in the world. so must make it alright….

Oct 30, 2011637 notes
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UN report says all states should provide access to safe abortion, contraception → feministing.com

prolongedeyecontact:

A groundbreaking new report by the UN Special Rapporteur on the right to health, Anand Grover, was released yesterday. And it is big!!

In the new report, Grover calls for the immediate removal of all impeding restrictions to abortion, full access to modern contraceptive methods, and complete and accurate information on sexual and reproductive health.

As the International Planned Parenthood Federation explains, “the report examines the disproportionate impact these laws and policies have on those who already suffer human rights violations and the denial of adequate heath care (e.g., women, impoverished peoples) and emphasizes individuals’ right to dignity and autonomy in health-related decision making.”

Having someone this high up basically say that all UN members states should provide safe abortion and contraception is a big deal, and many women’s health orgs are already hailing this as a huge victory for global sexual and reproductive rights and health.

For more, check out AWID’s analysis of the report (also available in Spanish and French).

RH Reality Check is also running a series looking at the issues in the report from different angles, including US policy.

Oct 27, 2011534 notes
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